Newb in the urban dictionary has two spellings and is divided
into two classifications: Newb/newbie and noob/n00b. In the online
gaming community, the former is a person who is new to the game and
inexperienced, but willing to learn and improve. The latter is a person
who is inexperienced, but doesn't try to improve, often saying and doing
things to annoy and be a nuisance to other players. The term 'newb' can
be applied to anyone new or inexperienced at a task or profession.
Being
a newb in any profession is awkward and humbling. You're on a constant
mission to collect information and experience so that you'll no longer
be branded as the 'new guy'. Your best friend is anyone willing to share
information and advice without teasing you for your ignorance. The only
way to stop being branded a newb is to become competent and experienced
in your profession...or to become more competent and experienced than the newest member of your team. (See how that works?)
Being a newb in the writing community shouldn't be as daunting as being a
newb in the gaming community. This all depends on the people you
surround yourself with. If you associate with people who tease you,
berate you, or discourage you, your experience will be unpleasant and it
may even turn you away from writing. You
will
encounter people like these, even if you're careful what blogs, forums,
and websites you visit. The best thing to do when this happens is to
ignore them and don't respond to their baiting. (If a person is
consistently bothering you or others, chances are he's a troll and you
don't want to 'feed' the trolls. Trolls don't respond to reason or
logic, since their purpose is to see how angry they can make you.)
To
survive being a newb in any community, writing included, you need to
find a safe place to learn and mingle with like-minded people. Scout
these out carefully through research, exploration, and recommendations
from others. A good place (forum, website, coffeehouse, etc) will be
where you spend most of your time interacting with the community, so you
want to know your way around it, know the atmosphere and the people who
frequent it. This will take time in itself, so the research beforehand
is a good idea.
To start you out, here are a few recommendations from me.
You can't go wrong with Alex J. Cavanaugh's Insecure Writers Support Group. They have a monthly blog hop where you can meet and mingle with other writers going through the same hurdles you are. You can also find them on Facebook (groups) and Twitter.
There are many hashtag chats on twitter where you can make helpful connections. The two I've been a part of are #kidlitchat (Tuesdays at 9pm EST), and #storycrafter (Sundays at 3pm EST). Storycrafter is a light, fun chat with writerly themes in Q&A format. It's open to all genres.
Finally, there's the Writers Chatroom which has topic chat Sundays at 7pm EST and open chat Wednesdays 8pm EST. The room is only open during scheduled chat times, but the people there are helpful and good at answering writing questions.
Once you've found a place, be friendly,
humble, and willing to learn. These are the best qualities a newb could
have to propel her out of newb status to leet. Take part in things,
reach out to others, don't be afraid to try. If you fail in front of
helpful people, they'll support you and encourage you to try again. Seek
out someone who could become a good friend, a guide to the profession
and its community or even someone just starting out like you. If you're
blessed enough to find a mentor who knows the whole thing inside-out,
that's great. Never turn down advice from someone who knows more than
you do. You might not be able to use it now, but it's good to know for
later.
To recap, this is
How to Survive Being a Newb:
- Find a safe place to mingle and learn
- Be friendly, humble, and willing
- Make a friend
- Listen to advice (and thank them for it)
- Don't be afraid to try
If you have advice or recommendations for other newbs, please share it in the comments.