Friday, August 6, 2021

Query Support Group: When we stall?

 


I think there is a lot of talk out there about the publication journey being a long road


Or a rocky one

But what happens when the road isn’t the problem? What happens when we just stall out?


I think this is where I have been/am/hope to escape from(???). I only started querying in small batches (8) and got anticipated rejections, but as I received them, I found it harder than expected to embrace the rejection process.

This wasn’t my first time in the trenches so what was the problem?

As much as we try to be immune to it rejection is never easy, but sometimes it is way harder to accept then others. Depending on what’s going on in your life you may not be in a place to smile through the rejection. And that’s okay.

Persistence and perseverance are important but recognizing that you may need some time to get yourself prepared or take a break are equally important. Right now, I need a moment to breathe and that’s okay. I haven’t given up, far from it. I’ve even enlisted help in refining my query but I am just not ready to pull the trigger on that second batch of queries yet.

 If you’re stalled, or faltering, or have some words of encouragement for those of us who are comment below or connect on Twitter using the #querysupportgroup tag or directly with me at @midlifecreative. I hope you all find yourselves on smooth fast roads into the sunset.

Thursday, August 5, 2021

Dear O'Abby: What the heck is creative non-fiction?

 Dear O'Abby,

I'm confused and I hope you can help me.  

I've been working on a memoir for several years and have finally reached a point where I feel it's ready for some readers.  I joined an online writing group that was recommended to me by friend who also writes and the feedback I've received thus far has been...well...a little confusing.

Several of the people who have read my memoir have suggested that I ought to think about re-writing it as creative non-fiction to make it more accessible to readers.  I haven't been able to respond to these critiques yet because, to be honest, I have no idea what creative non-fiction actually is.  I thought that memoirs were, by nature, non-fiction because they are telling a true story.  And novels are creative because you make them up.  Are these other writers asking me to make up my own life?

Can you shed some light so I can figure out what the heck these people want from my book?

Yours, 

Baffled

Dear Baffled,

Creative non-fiction is basically a catch-all term for true stories written in a way that will engage readers the same way a novel might.  It does not in any way mean that you should make up or embellish or exaggerate any of the facts about your life.  By calling your book a memoir, you are creating an expectation in the reader that the events presented in your book are true.

Where the creative part comes in is in the writing, the way you craft the stories about your life.

Without having read your book, it's difficult for me to know exactly what your critique group is referencing, but for me, when reading a memoir, I want more than just a series of events on the page.  I want to know the person whose life I'm reading about and to do that, the writer needs to immerse me in the world they are describing.

A compelling memoir vividly describes place, people, emotions and anything else relevant to whatever event is being written about.  Events of little significance can be left out unless they are linked in some way to the bigger events that might have shaped the writer and brought them to the place they are today.

Actual conversations may not be remembered word-for-word, but the gist or purpose of these conversations will be remembered and can be sparingly re-created to give the event more immediacy and to bring other people important to the writer to life.

If you're writing the story of a life, for it to be satisfying, it still needs to follow a narrative structure with the main character (in this case, you) growing and changing over the course of the book. Basically, what you need to do is make your own story into a compelling narrative.

Hopefully this has been helpful.  Best of luck with your memoir!

X O'Abby

Wednesday, August 4, 2021

Spotlight on New Book Debut Author Emma Kress #DangerousPlay

Operation Awesome Spotlight #20Questions in #2021 of #NewBook Debut Author posted by @JLenniDorner of @OpAwesome6


Dangerous Play by Emma Kress

#NewBook #DebutAuthor #2021Books Spotlight on New Book Debut Author Emma Kress

1- What led you to decide to use field hockey in your book?

I played field hockey once upon a time so that was a natural choice. Additionally, field hockey is one of the few remaining sports where a teen can start it late in life and still have a shot on the team, which allows for a more diverse cast.

2- Would you please, in 160 characters or less, give a #WriteTip ?

Love to write? Then write. There’s a lot of hard in the world. The answer isn’t to harden your heart, bc then you won’t be vulnerable on the page. The answer is to enjoy the process. Lean into joy.

3- What most motivates you to read a new book?

I love to read all sorts of books in all sorts of genres and for all sorts of audiences. I love likable and flawed characters, strong voices, and good twists.

4- Zoe and the girls have to take safety matters into their own hands. In your opinion, what are some reasons that law enforcement (and security and such) is so bad at preventing sexual assault, and is there a positive way to prevent such crimes, or at least lower the frequency they occur?

This is a difficult question requiring a complex answer bigger than a tweet. But I do think it has to do with the entrenched assumptions we make societally that are a part of rape culture. That’s why I think the solution is to embrace consent culture.

5- Would you share a picture with us of your book on a field?
#NewBook #DebutAuthor #2021Books Spotlight on New Book Debut Author Emma Kress

6- What additional challenges did the pandemic create in the publication of your book?

I did the bulk of my revisions and edits during the pandemic. It was a deeply challenging and uncertain time packed with losses, small and big, all smashed up one after the other. So focusing and being productive was tough. But the toughest part of course is that everyone was experiencing the same trauma and hardship. It wasn’t just one person having a hard day, who could then be uplifted by the team. The whole team had a hard year. But, just like the girls in DANGEROUS PLAY, we powered through.

7- What's your Twitter handle, and do you have two or three writer friends on there to shout-out to for #WriterWednesday ?

@emma_kress, @elisazied, @amberlough, @LakitaWrites

8- Do you have a favorite #bookstagram image or account/ profile?

@diamondxgirl has been so supportive of Dangerous Play right from the cover announcement. And I love her pretty feed packed with bookish joy.

9- Are you a Plotter, Pantser, or Plantser, and how did you adopt that style?
#NewBook #DebutAuthor #2021Books Spotlight on New Book Debut Author Emma Kress

For a long time—including for my first draft of Dangerous Play—I was a pantser. Now, I’m a diehard plotter. But my version of plotting comes after extensive sidewriting about the characters to grasp their desires, motivations, and backstories. Which maybe is plantser?

10- What does your basic writing schedule look like, and how often do you write?

With two kids and two adults working and schooling from home this last year a half, my schedule fell out the window. In general, as a mom, I write when I can. That’s my big advice to beginning writers: Don’t get too precious about routines and time. Have 10 minutes? Sweet! Write something. A lot of little somethings can add up to a book.

11- What is your favorite book by someone else, what's the author's Twitter handle, and what do you love most about that book? #FridayReads book recommendation time!
In The Same Boat #NewBook #DebutAuthor #2021Books Spotlight on New Book Debut Author Emma Kress

Author name: Holly Green @writerhollyg
Title: In The Same Boat
Love because: It’s a fantastic feminist adventure/romance featuring a sporty girl hero. It’s perfect.


12- What emotions do you hope your book will evoke for the reader?

I hope #DangerousPlay will inspire hope and empower readers to feel seen, heard, and valued.

13- What kind of impact do you hope your book will have?

I would love it if #DangerousPlay helped people who feel powerless imagine new ways to reclaim their voices and their power. I think my book can act as a blueprint for hopeful thinking.

14- What is your favorite creative non-writing activity to do?

I’m very stretched right now (pandemic times) so there isn’t really time to engage in the things I used to do. But I do try to be creative in my everyday life—in the way I set the table, the way I take a walk, the way I arrange my desk.

15- In what ways are the main characters in your book diverse? diversebooks.org #WeNeedDiverseBooks

I intentionally created a diverse field hockey team of girls. The team has girls of color, queer girls, and girls from varied socio-economic and ethnic backgrounds. I was mindful about creating a book that celebrates intersectional feminism. This is why I was so pleased to see this in the PW review: “Debut author Kress nimbly alternates between heart-pounding field hockey scenes and social commentary, acknowledging, unlike many books about rape culture, that classism and racism intersect with and compound misogyny.”

16- What method do you feel is the best way to get book reviews?

Um…I’m supposed to get book reviews?  I guess I just do my best to get the word out about Dangerous Play and hope that if people like the book, they’re kind enough to post about it. But my job isn’t to solicit reviews. My job is to keep writing.

17- What was the deciding factor in your publication route?

I chose the traditional publishing route. My goal wasn’t just to publish a book, it was to level up as a writer. I wanted to connect with an editor and an agent so that I could learn from them—not just for this book but for future books. So, for me, the traditional route was the best path forward.

18- What's the biggest writing goal you hope to accomplish in your lifetime?

I think as a society we need to do a better job with being in the present moment, with feeling enough right now. I’ve wanted to be a writer since I was 10. The biggest goal I ever had was to hold a book that I’d written in my hands. Here I am, doing exactly that. It’s a wild and beautiful thing. I’m just going to sit with that joy and gratitude for now.

19- Would you please ask our audience a question to answer in the comments?

Here’s a graphic of what’s inside Dangerous Play. What piece most appeals to you as a reader?
#NewBook #DebutAuthor #2021Books Spotlight on New Book Debut Author Emma Kress

#NewBook #DebutAuthor #2021Books Spotlight on New Book Debut Author Emma Kress

20- Anything else you would care to share about your book and yourself?

find me online: Website: http://emmakress.com
Instagram: https://instagram.com/kress.emma/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/emma_kress
Facebook: https://facebook.com/Emma-Kress-104816784920770
TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@emma_kress


Dangerous Play by Emma Kress

Monday, August 2, 2021

Random Trivia #1

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Trivia Monacha shells
Let's have some fun!

Top 10 Famous Authors
#10 on this list is JD Salinger.  Who do you think is #1?


Wikipedia Best-Selling Authors
This chart is fun because it also lists the number of books by that author.  The "highest maximum sales" for the top 2 is $4 billion [yes with a "b"] EACH.  Can you guess who those 2 authors are?


Most famous author from each US state
Can you guess who it is for YOUR state?


The 10 best books of all time, chosen by 125 famous authors
Can you guess ONE book on this list?