I don't get writer's block. Instead, I get writer's fear.
While the white page doesn't bother me, filling that page
involves navigating strange territory.
Even detailed maps and outlines warp in the act of writing. Settings shift. Characters refuse to be the people I imagined
at the outset. This is wonderful: surprise is one of the best and truest parts
of writing. But the more I press into new territory, the more the worries grow.
They start out logical: does this character make sense? Is this response authentic? Does this scene matter? Will my readers understand this story and
setting?
But then they reproduce like tribbles in heat. I trip over them. They change character, become accusations. Your story's irrelevant. Pretentious. You don't know what you're
doing. You don't have a right to talk
about this topic. Give it up. And so on, and so forth. Fears fill the empty space in my head, and strangling
characters, plot, and world.
Wrestling with fears is part of every writer's life, but
I've been slow learning the wrestling technique. These fears feed on anticipation and
attachment. Which means that tools
designed to approach excessive anticipation and attachment can help with
fear. Recently I've used a simple Buddhist
meditation trick, which I think I first read in Tricycle somewhere: 'not-that.'
'Not-that' means confronting thoughts that arise during a
period of meditation (and writing is a kind of meditation) and saying, 'not
that'—this isn't the point, this isn't the problem, this isn't the focus of my
existence. 'Not that,' said in silence
or aloud, is a lot faster than arguing my fears into submission, and more
effective: a few minutes' work can clear out a pile of emotional laundry, and
free up time, and more importantly, mental and emotional space, that I didn't
realize were occupied by fear.
Besides, it's fun. My
plot sucks—not that. Nobody wants to read this story—not that. I should have gone with your other idea—not
that. Let everything go, except of
course for the act of writing. When I have
a draft, when I'm editing, then I can invite all those concerns back in, and
determine which are justified, and which aren't.
I don't expect this technique to work for everyone. Like all
techniques, it's just a finger pointing at the moon. But if you find yourself stymied by fear,
give this a shot, and see if it helps.
5 comments:
Thank you for this post. I recently blogged on a similar issue - my struggle with confidence, and the role of confidence in productive writing. I've been especially plagued by fear and self-doubt as I enter the middle of my manuscript. Think I'll give "not-that" a try.
I hope it works! It's worked well for me; this manuscript in particular has been my most fear-laden yet, but based on yesterday's writer's group meeting, it seems to be no less good (or bad) than any other manuscript I've had at this stage. It's amazing how much extra trouble our minds can make for ourselves during the drafting process.
Great tip! Not only would "not that" be useful for handling thoughts of fear, but for simple distractions as well! :-)
Welcome! Thank you, Max! This post came just in time for the infatuation stage of my latest WIP to end, leaving me with that, "Why am I writing this again?" feeling. I'll have to try this.
Yes, those doubtful voices can drown out the confident ones! So glad you found a technique that works for you.
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